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成功的决定因素 The Factors Lead to Success
What is success? I think different people will have different answers. Some people think that success is earning a great deal of money or working in the government. Or success is nothing but we look for all the time. In my opinion, success is quite simple. It means you can live the life you want and you can feel happiness very often. Sometime, money cannot bring you happiness or satisfaction, and you can’t have the feeling of success. Because money is just the tool to achieve your goal but never the goal. Therefore, looking for what you really want and then work hard for it. Then you are close to success.
When doing the same thing, some people success but some fail. There must be many factors leading that result. In my view, the most important factor is the difference of confidence, determination and sociability are the foundation and condition of success.
First of all, no matter who want to success, they must have confidence, as confidence is the basic need for success. If someone always thinks he can’t do this or that well, then he can’t finish it well. For example, when a person is being interviewed, if he doesn’t believe he can do that job well, how can he act believable, so how can the interviewers trust his ability? Therefore, the interview is obviously a failure. However, if a person is confident, he can receive the opportunity to prepare for every challenge easily, which makes success become closer.
In addition, confidence just the door for success, if someone wants to get into the house of success, determination is necessary. The determined meet difficulties always overcome it and insist to the end. On the other hand, if someone is not determined, he would give up when facing difficulty. For instance, when doing homework, the person who is not determined always can’t finish perfectly and even copy from others when he thinks that homework is hard to finish. However, the person who is determined always can finish it well, because he know what he really wants and he is able to carry on.
The last but not least is that no one can do anything well by themselves, so they need help. At that time, sociable is helpful. It is well-known that success is hard to reach. Therefore, people need others to help them. A sociable person can get help easily, as he has so many friends. On the other side, a person is not good at communication, when he gets in trouble, maybe no one helps him. So we can see the importance of sociability to success.
In a word, there maybe not only confidence, determination, and sociability are essential to success, but I think they are the most important ones, for they are the foundation and condition of success.